To understand how to make a man miss you more, you would first have to learn the basics of flying a kite -essentially, know when to pull and when to give the string some slack. Recognise that as much as you should be sincere and real in getting to know each other, dating is a game and you need to learn the rules if you want to play it right.
Confirm it by reading the Signs that he is in LOVE with you.
To keep a man interested in you, read on:
Tip 1
Retain some level of mystery.
Don’t tell him EVERYTHING, especially not on the first date or through text messages. Do not reveal all your likes, dislikes, interests, family details, work, colleagues, what you ate for lunch etc. Related to this, don’t go posting every detail about yourself on Facebook too, because gathering intel on you would be way too easy. Let him discover it when he is with you. This will make him curious and want to know more about you, resulting in more calls and follow-on dates.
Tip 2
Have no Expectations
Men run faster than the peak hour crowd rushing for the seats in the MRT when they sense that their women have unrealistic expectations from them. Don’t expect him to pay at every date, or send you home to and fro, if he lives at the opposite side of the island. Don’t expect him to report status, or give you a dozen red roses all the time. Give him that opportunity to surprise you rather than have expectations. Be pleasantly surprised than bitterly disappointed.
Tip 3
Be Spontaneous and Take Initiative
Ever noticed why the female protagonist in romantic comedies are all a little bit crazy and fun? Think Drew Barrymore in 50 First Dates or Cameron Diaz in There’s Something About Mary. There’s just that cuteness and unpredictability about a girl who doesn’t take herself too seriously. This is a very attractive quality to any man. Be a little bit crazy, wild and let your hair down. Bring on your A-game whenever you are with him, laugh and be goofy, make him feel like a teenager in love again. Humour is the best endorphin and you can bet you will be on his mind way after the date ends. Take initiative sexually as well, surprise him by keeping things fresh in bed, or making love in other parts of the house. My suggestion, start from the kitchen to the balcony!
Tip 4
Have your own Life and Not be Clingy
When a guy sees a woman who is independent, confident and positive in your life, he (and a whole bunch of people) will want to be around you. Have your own schedule and circle of friends, rather than depend on your man to fulfill your needs, your weekends and provide for you in EVERY ASPECT of your life. Don’t ever accept last minute dates, which makes him think that you have nothing else to do but wait for him (even if this is true!). Make him work hard to get a slot with you by planning ahead. Having said that, you would still need to make him feel like he is needed. Compliment him when he helps you with fixing things around the house, or helping you with IT stuff, for instance.
Tip 5
Don’t return his SMS/ Whatsapp right away (wait at least 30 mins) and always end the date or call first. This leaves him wanting more, and he will miss you when waiting for your reply. Dirty trick but trust me, it works.
These are useful tricks when you are dating someone fairly new. Hope it works for you, as much as it did for me. Soon you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hands.
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