Top 50 Kinky Ideas for a Sexy Relationship

Lust is fickle.

You could enjoy the best sex of your life this month.

And the very next month, you may find yourself bored with the to and fro motion.

Sex is always exciting and frisky at the start of a new relationship.

But that doesn’t mean older relationships don’t have the pleasure of passionate sex.

Just as long as you know what both of you want in bed.

When sex starts to get monotonous over time, all it needs is a little spark to ignite the sexual passion and ecstasy you shared at the beginning. And once you find ways to bring back the excitement into your bedroom, you’ll be able to experience the best sex of your lives, no matter how long you’ve been in the relationship.

Are you having a hard time getting wet or hard down there? Just try something new, chances are, you’ll enjoy it a lot more than you can ever imagine.

Getting kinky in bed can mean different things for different people. What can seem explosive to one couple could seem tame and boring to others.

So we decided to come up with the top 50 kinky ideas for all lovers, be it the new ones or the seasoned professionals of lovemaking.

Still new to the kinky party? Try a few tips from the kinky list.

A kinky veteran? Well, we’re sure there are a lot of tips here that you still haven’t tried, you horny bunny! Try it, you may just like something with a twist.

But just a word of caution, while we do suggest you try these kinky ideas with your partner, we’ll still have to be a buzzkill and tell you to know the laws of your state before indulging in a few of these rather kinky ideas.

After all, it’s better to be safe than sorry. We’ve all heard that phrase, never do anything that you can’t explain to the paramedics or the cops, haven’t we?

#1 Grind and grope each other or other people while clubbing.

#2 Have sex with each other while someone’s watching. Or watch someone else having sex.

#3 Have sex with a full length mirror next to your bed.

#4 Bring food into bed. Nothing beats whipped cream!

#5 Make out on a rooftop or under the stars. Romantic, adventurous and scary!

#6 Role play with each other by dressing in character or as other people in your daily lives.

#7 Fantasize about different scenarios and sexual situations.

#8 Skinny dip with each other or involve a few friends.

#9 Give a road head or have sex while travelling or on a road trip.

#10 Take off on a sexy vacation with another couple or have a sexy drunk double date at home.

#11 Get naughty on the beach with each other.

#12 Make out or have sex in a public place like a restroom or in a dark corner of a club.

#13 Flash in public.

#14 Shower together and play with the hand shower or have soapy sex in the bathroom.

#15 Pick up a copy of the kamasutra and try unique sex positions that both of you might enjoy.

#16 Get a couples’ sensual erotic massage with masseurs of the opposite sexes.

#17 Make out on someone else’s bed. Weird, awkward and oh-so-sexy.

#18 Watch porn videos while having sex and turn up the volume for some sexy background music.

#19 Make a sex video or take nude photos of each other.

#20 Have sex with another couple in bed with both of you.

#21 Grope or make out in transportation, be it on a flight, a train or an overnight bus.

#22 Have tantric sex all night long.

#23 Role reversal.

#24 Spanking and nibbling, and a furry cuff can be a great turn on for controlling sex.

#25 Have sex in a changing room when there are very few people around.

#26 Using edible body paint can make eating in bed so much more tasty.

#27 Pretend like you’re sleeping while your partner slips in, turns you on and has sex with you.

#28 The world can get dark with blindfolds, but it’ll open up your sexy imaginative mind.

#29 Bondage can be scary, but a few scarves, ropes and clean bondage can turn out to be sexier than you think.

#30 Anal sex. If it hurts, use lubes. If it still hurts, try something else.

#31 Finger her under a restaurant table. Just make sure the tablecloth’s big enough to cover your indecent act in public.

#32 Have sex with the curtains open and get comfortably close to the window.

#33 Scratch each other and use your nails. Sometimes, pain can bring more pleasure.

#34 Leave the hotel room door open for the waiter while having sex.

#35 Have resistance sex and pretend like you’re being groped and molested.

#36 Have sex in water, be it a pool or in the ocean.

#37 Bring in a few sex toys to bed.

#38 Play naughty truth and dare and strip poker with friends.

#39 Have drunk sex after a wild night of partying.

#40 Imagine having sex with someone else and talk to your partner about it.

#1 Are you bold enough to try swapping and swinging with other couples?

#2 Ropes and bondage can be awkward for beginners, but they’re a lot of fun for the seasoned kinky lovers.

#3 Clamps and whips can hurt, but at the right places, even pain can be a huge turn on.

#4 Like being the dominatrix? Try playing submissive to the kinkiest of commands with your partner.

#5 Have sex in risky places.

#6 Like peeing on each other while having sex? Golden river fantasies were made for you.

#7 Watch your partner having sex with someone else.

#8 Use a double dildo with your man and penetrate him while getting penetrated yourself.

#9 Have a threesome with someone both of you admire or like.

#10 Have sex and flaunt yourselves on your webcam to other couples. Just remember to keep your face out of the camera though.

Remember, all of us have our own preferences when it comes to kinky ideas. See what you like and try what you want. Like something bolder or milder, just improvise.